Month: November 2016

Mysterious men on OKC

Good afternoon!

So, my friend and I were just talking about how there are no interesting, open minded and unique people on here and then today I stumble across your profile – you seem like a pretty cool individual… much more than most on here. You seem like a free spirit and that is very much what I am looking for right now. I also love how intelligent and self-sufficient you seem to be – you really seem to be very responsible and the fact that you love your kids as much as you do speaks volumes to what kind of girl you are. I don’t think I have ever seen someone express how fun yet responsible they can be as well as you did in your profile, super mom! 🙂

On a side note, that upclose face pic in your profile is amazing – you legit look like an angel when you smile. I’m being 100% honest when I say this, but regardless of whether you reply to my message or not, please just know that your profile pictures paired with reading about what a warm and kind person you are truly did make my bad day a lot better.


The trophy for best pic goes to the farther out pic of you with that amazing smile! Wow!

Lastly, I feel you should know I am a Dominant personality type and you seem like you may share the same kinks as myself… which.. I find very intriguing and feel would make for even more interesting scenarios – not going to lie, your survey answers kind of surprised me! It’s not often you find someone into that type of thing in this area, but I know they’re out there somewhere!

And no, don’t worry – I’m not just out for sex or whatever, I just wanted to tell you about my lifestyle ahead of time so that didn’t come as a shock later on if we do end up talking.

Most people around here are so single-layered, so please do me the honor of getting to know you – you seem like such an interesting and fun person to know!

I really, truly hope to hear back from you. It’s so rare I find someone actually work talking to on this site. Feel free to kik me if you have kik *&^*&%$#^&016

You really are so real and so pleasant. Let’s talk.

Did this just overwhelm you? Because it sure did me. I received this message on OKC about a month ago and normally when I get a message of that length, I chalk it up to a man just copying and pasting the same message to a number of women, hoping someone will respond and I simply delete it. But this guy’s profile intrigued me, so I messaged him back and pretty much asked him if it was a “form letter”. He responded pretty quickly with an equally lengthy message explaining that no, it was not a “form letter” and pointing out more about my profile and answers to some of the questions that he liked. I still didn’t believe him but I was still intrigued by some of his responses so I continued to message him. We messaged for a few days and I enjoyed our conversations. And then one day, I logged in and his profile was deleted. WTF?!

I can’t say I was surprised, that seems to happen with these mysterious men who probably aren’t even real. I’ve heard about men getting the same type of messages from accounts that turn out to be fake, I don’t get it. What is the allure of all this? Has anyone else had the same experiences of what I’m assuming is fake profiles?

Single-handedly catching up

It has been a crazy month, so I will take a few post to get you guys caught up on the shenanigans that have been my life.

One thing I struggled with in October was having to put down our beloved dachshund. 

She had been with us for about four years and my younger son has grown with her, he was only two when we got her. He loved her so much and making the decision to put her down was a difficult one. Prior to our move, she was having some pain in her neck and back. The vet confirmed that she was experiencing some inflammation and gave us medication to help her with the pain. They suggested we get her to rest as much as possible to help the inflammation. My little man was diligent about giving her the medication every morning and it became a routine and beautiful bonding moment for both of them. The medication seemed to help for about a month and then all of a sudden she took a turn for the worse and lost movement in the back half of her body. Within three days she couldn’t walk and then she couldn’t move. She had lost control of her bladder and bowels and she wouldn’t eat. It was painful to watch. My boys were spending the weekend with their father as he got married, so I made the difficult decision with the help of Red and I thought it would be best to do it while they were away. We contacted Lap of Love and they were amazing. They came to the house and everything was done in the comfort of my living room. I held her until she stopped breathing. They left us with a locket of her hair and a plaster of her paw print. When the boys came home Sunday evening I sat them down and explained the events of the weekend, it was heartbreaking and the longest night. The pain is still fresh and I’m sure it’ll be a while before it isn’t.

Another reason I have not posted anything is because on 11/3, I had a minor surgery on my right hand / ring finger and I was in a plaster splint for about 20 days. Typing was a bitch. I probably picked the worst possible time to be one-handed. Last Sunday marked the end of my semester and I was a little behind due to the surgery and the other events leading up to it. So I spent last week playing catch up and boy was that a mess. I typed ten, two to four page assignments, took one final exam, and typed a 20 page final project in about five days. My hand remained inflamed and sore pretty much the entire week. Now the plaster splint is off and the stitches are out but I still need a little rehabilitation. Typing is still a bitch and just getting this little bit down has been difficult. I’ll start physical therapy soon, I know that will be painful but hopefully I’ll be back to typing like normal soon.

Stay tuned for more about why I deleted ALL the dating apps.